is married women – a servent , a punching bag or for dowry ?
note -we are writing this not for all married women , we are writing this for who suffer in our society because of wrong .
A girl marry or marry forcely by family or some other reasons to a unknown man . And then girls act as wife , daughter in law , sister in law , mother , E.T.C
her family marry for men’s family not for them . a women perform many home tasks for man .
some girl marry at kid , teen , or early age which is not good . she have lot of pressure of house’s work . etc . this age are for playing , study , building career . not for marriage .
According to UNCIEF, India has the highest absolute number of child brides in the world – 15,509,000.
Child marriage is driven by gender inequality and the belief that girls are somehow inferior to boys. In India, child marriage is also driven by:
Poverty: Child marriage is more common among poorer households, with many families marrying off their daughters to reduce their perceived economic burden. Girls are often married off at a younger age because less dowry is expected for younger brides.
Betrothal: Some girls are promised in marriage before they are born in order to “secure” their future. Once they reach puberty, guana or “send-off” ceremonies take place and they are sent to their husband’s home to commence married life.
Level of education: Many families consider girls to be paraya dhan – someone else’s wealth. This means that a girl’s productive capacities benefit her marital family, and educating daughters is therefore seen as less of a priority than educating sons, who are responsible for taking care of biological parents in old age.
Household labour: Girls are often married off at puberty when they are deemed most ‘productive’ and can take care of children and conduct housework. The labour of young brides is central to some rural economies. The practice of atta satta sees two extended families exchange girls through marriage so neither family is worse off in terms of household labour.
Traditional customs: Customary laws based on religion are a major barrier in ending child marriage in India. Social pressure to marry at puberty can be enormous within certain castes.
Gender norms: There is generally a lower value attached to daughters, and girls are expected to be adaptable, docile, hardworking and talented wives.
India acceded to the Convention on the Rights of the Child in 1992, which sets a minimum age of marriage of 18 for girls and 21 for boys , and ratified the Convention on the Elimination of All Forms of Discrimination Against Women (CEDAW) in 1993, which obligates states to ensure free and full consent to marriage.
if someone breaks this rule , strict action can be taken .
IS MARRIAGE FOR DOWRY ?
DOWRY -an amount of property or money brought by a bride to her husband on their marriage.
IT IS WRONG . IN SOME HOUSE , fight happen because of not bringing dowry . in many house women are murdered by family
Dowry deaths are deaths of married women who are murdered or driven to suicide by continuous harassment and torture by their husbands and in-laws over a dispute about their dowry, making the women’s homes the most dangerous place for them to be. Dowry deaths are found predominantly in India,
The Dowry Prohibition Act of 1961 prohibits the request, payment or acceptance of a dowry, “as consideration for the marriage”, where “dowry” is defined as a gift demanded or given as a precondition for a marriage. Gifts given without a precondition are not considered dowry, and are legal. Asking or giving of dowry can be punished by an imprisonment of up to six months, or a fine of up to ₹5,000 (US$70, £55 or A$100). It replaced several pieces of anti-dowry legislation that had been enacted by various Indian states. Murder and suicide under compulsion are addressed by India’s criminal penal code.
so , why man’s are greedy for dowry ? why they can’t bring thier own ?
Is women marry for get bitten ?
in our society , we all have read and see that in many house , women is bitten for-
- not bring dowry
- personal reason
- wrong thinking of men , that man are superior then women .
- if a women started taking some decision .
wrong thinking –
many men think that men are superior to women . both are equal . many great women make our country proud in our history and in present . but they forget that goddess Radha’s name is taken before krishnaji .
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2. Roshini Sharma
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3. Shila Dawre
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4. Arunima Sinha
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5. Reita Faria Powel
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6. Arati Saha
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7. Mithali Raj
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8. Mother Teresa
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9. Indira Gandhi
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10. Pratibha Patil
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11. Kalpana Chawla
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12. Kiran Bedi
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13. Anjali Gupta
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14. Justice M. Fathima Beevi
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15. Sania Mirza
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16. Saina Nehwal
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17. Sarla Thakral
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18. Mary Kom
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19. Bachendri Pal
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20. Durga Banerjee
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21. Harita Kaur Deol
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22. Priya Jhingan
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see they are many more , many women rule country too . they are sometimes higher then man .
government has started many helpline . which are
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if you know some one , aware her what she can do .
many movie creator made movie in which they send message that women are equal , man can’t beat them . to change thinking of society . but they forget that this type of stereotype thoughts are in our society from history , and history can’t be change in 2 hours . this type of thinking took many years to come . now they will take more time to change .
to change thinking , and stop domestic violence . we all smart people have to help them , aware them about what our government is doing for them .
In our history , many wrong practise are abolished by the hard work of smart people . so , we have to help them .
so to change wrong thinking .
#letsbringnewchange # letshelp # stay at home .
IT IS AN REQUEST THAT HELP OR AWARE TH OSE WHO ARE SUFFERING .